Polyamory vs Monogamy: Is polyamory better?
Polyamorous/non-monogamous relationships have become pretty popular in recent years. I'm definitely a fan of people being able to live life in the way that best works for them. This includes the type of relationship that they choose to participate in (or lack thereof). However, I have noticed a few trends that seem to me like a lot of people are trying to justify their personal choices by vilifying the alternatives and making statements such as "non-monogamy is generally better for everyone", "monogamy is generally bad", and "monogamy is unnatural". This could be an example of people assuming that what applies to them also applies generally for everyone, so if something feels unnatural for them personally then it must be unnatural in general. However, there are many people who have no desire to be non-monogamous (dating and/or having sex with other people outside of their relationship), so this doesn't really make sense. I'll address some of th...